The Ugly Truth is one of the most refreshingly honest dating films since What Women Want – but this time, the topic is about what MEN want. This is one of those rare date movies that both men and women are talking about – and with good reason. It just may touch on some truths.
Abby Richter, played by Katherine Heigl, is a romantically challenged morning show producer in Sacramento. Mike Chadway, played by Gerard Butler, is her new male chauvinist talent. As much as it kills her, his testosterone-driven advice makes him a new superstar and helps re-spark flames of passion for many couples. Reluctantly, Abby admits that Mike may be able to help her land her dream guy; a doctor named Colin.
This is where the fun begins. So now I give to you Mike Chadway’s “Truth’s for Women to Date By”, as interpreted by yours truly, Mark Edward Davis of International Dating for Men.com:
Mike’s Truth #1: Courting is About Lust, Seduction, and Manipulation
Abby is adamant that the pursuit of her dream man is about love, “Colin is a man who knows about love; which obviously you know nothing of.”
Mike retorts, "What I do know about is lust, seduction, and manipulation; things of which you know nothing of."
What is the truth? The truth is that both people want first-impressions to communicate that:
· They are comfortable in their own skin,
· That they already lead a successful life,
· But that they are interested in getting to know the other person.
As detestable as it may seem; the ways that you communicate these three points are manipulated and calculating. Courting is a game of controlled disclosure; but that’s necessary. How can that be true? It’s true because more disclosure is given only as trust is earned. That is just self-respect. It’s not a game. Those are healthy boundaries.
But, with all of that pushing back, how do you keep him coming toward you? Mike has that answer up next.
Mike’s Truth #2: Ladies, You Need to be both the Stripper and the Librarian
I can’t help but agree with that one. I’ve said it myself that I wanted a woman who could go mountain climbing, look elegant at a social event, and be the vixen behind closed doors. Ladies, isn’t that who you want to be as well?
Mike’s Truth #3: You Have to Like Yourself if You Expect Anyone Else to Like You
How can you argue with that? He goes on to say that you have to feel sexy in order to be sexually attractive. This is why we sometimes describe a particular woman as radiant. It comes from a state of feeling beautiful. Do what it takes for you to feel beautiful.
Check back here or at InternationalDatingForMen.com to catch Part 2 of this article where we’ll look at Mike’s last four “truths”:
· Laugh at all of his jokes
· Don’t complain or talk about your problems
· Men are only interested in sex and beauty
· Women are control freaks
The real-life insights behind these “truths” may be The Ugly Truth. You’ll have to judge that for yourself.
Have you ever wished you had a gorgeous woman in your life who loved you for being a man and loved you with all the energy she could give? This is going to blow your mind. They are out there and waiting for you. We'll talk about the path, the pitfalls, and the rewards. We'll talk about what it means to be a man in other cultures. You'll discover love and beauty that will make you the envy of all of your friends - and she'll probably have an adorable accent too!
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